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Loving BMM!

I’m SO glad we joined BMM! The challenges and conversations are awesome, and my spouse and I are closer now than ever before – if often feels like we’re honeymooning all over again(both emotionally and physically 😉 ) Because of BMM we have been able to start unpacking some heavy baggage and work towards getting rid of it all together. I never thought that was possible until this program. This has been one of those ‘I never knew what I was missing’ things. Thank you for all you do!

P & C

A New Level of Connection.

“If you want greater connection and intimacy in your marriage relationship, we can speak high enough for how much Austin and Rachel has assisted us!”

Meredith & Justin Boggs

Now We Understand Each Other.

“Both my husband and I have gained so much from being a part of Because Marriage Matters. We’ve been married for 5 years and have a very strong marriage, but still have so much to learn! The live Q&A calls have been so much fun, and huge eye openers to us. It’s so freeing to learn to accept yourself as a masterpiece, not something flawed to work through, and also to learn how your spouse thinks and feels. It gives you the ability to truly love them as you were meant to.

Having the BMM community to go to for wisdom, support and prayer requests is like going to a safe, quiet place in the middle of the craziness and apathy or every day life. To put it concisely, a blessing.”

Stephen & Caitlin

Finally…REAL Communication!

We’ve had some very needed and deep conversations lately. Topics that aren’t fun to talk about, but we both needed to. It has really made me feel closer to him than EVER. I feel like a light bulb has gone off and we’ve opened up a whole new level in our marriage.”

Kirsten & Ben

HUGE Breakthroughs in Our Marriage.

Our biggest breakthrough was quick equals young. It was like a light-bulb came on when we trained on that. As for our marriage, it’s helped us to realize that we aren’t alone in this and we aren’t the only ones going through what we’ve gone through. It’s taught us how to express what we are feeling and why in an appropriate manner that respects your spouse. The support from the Ladies group has been AMAZING too! THANK YOU Austin and Rachel!

Jenny & Collin

Stronger Than Ever.

BMM has opened new ways of thinking and viewing which we had never thought of before. It has allowed us to learn and grow stronger in our marriage and as individuals. One of the biggest things I have taken from it so far is learning ways to own my emotions. I have been able to pause, process, feel, and allow my response to be graceful and understanding. Before it was easy to be caught up in emotions and blame talk. Now I have learned what it means for both of us to each take 100% responsibility. WONDERFUL!

Vince & Sheena

So Much Transformation That My PARENTS Joined BMM!

Our marriage has transformed so much that one of our parents asked us, “Wow, what has made such a difference in your marriage?”

We told them about BMM and they joined, and now experiencing the same results!

We’re so thankful for BMM!

Jake & Allyn

Emotional Transparency.

My husband was frustrated about me not being affectionate. I used the line “I’m actually feeling disconnected from you” and gave him a long hug. It worked like a charm? calmed him down and allowed us to have a better dialogue about the matter.

Patrick & Tanika

Create the thriving marriage you deserve, no matter the current state of your marriage.

Marriage isn't always easy; in-fact, it can be downright difficult at times.

We get it. We've been there.

And, there is good news.... and there's also good news.

The good news is that an incredible marriage is within your reach, today.

And... the other good news...is that it's was easier than you and everyone else wants you to believe.

Marriage coaches Austin and Rachel Holt have developed a broad range of marriage growth tools with a proven track record of helping people just like you create a thriving and powerful marriage. They are endorsed by some of the world's top experts in relationships, psychology, therapy and more, and are available to you. 

Imagine, just for a moment: A God-honoring marriage that never stops growing in grace, love, support, intimacy, fun and integrity.


If you're ready to quit the mountain/valley style marriage, and enter into a marriage that flows and thrives, we're ready for you.


Start Here

Once you complete the introductory "Foundations Course" you'll unlock access to join our VIP Monthly program, which includes:


Live Coaching, Q&A's

Twice a month, Austin and Rachel go LIVE with any and all couples who want to join in on the action. During those live video chats, they dive deep into their own marriage(showing couples like YOU how they work out THEIR marriage tangles), and use those same techniques with any other couple who wants to participate too.

There's typically time for raw Q&A as well where you get answers to all of your deepest marriage questions. *Live sessions are recorded so you can watch them later as well!*


Weekly Marriage Boosters

Every month, Austin and Rachel will send you (4) Marriage Boosters. These are powerful, simple and easy to implement marriage boosting techniques for you and your spouse. Boosters include:

  • Emotional & Self
  • Creative & Adventurous
  • Sexual
  • Spiritual

Imagine every month receiving 1 method to boost each of those areas of your marriage!


Guest Expert Trainings

Every month, Austin and Rachel seek out experts from around the world, and hire them to produce an EXCLUSIVE training for BMM Members only.

They believe it's important that a variety of perspective and expertise are given in the program so your marriage can grow in numerous ways, from numerous angles.

This approach is based on combining the different styles of marriage counseling and making a transformational connection.


Online Courses

Some of us love to use that left brain when we learn. So, Austin and Rachel have included powerful courses they've written for you to take online, or simply print and enjoy going through them like you would a good book.

These courses include simple, powerful and easy to implement action items and areas of reflection, so you can grow your marriage and grow YOU as. Without action there is no reaction.

We want you to thrive!


Community Support

For those who want the additional benefit of community, Austin and Rachel have created and maintain a private community for all members of BMM to join IF THEY WANT.

Some couples like to go through marriage growth alone, and some like to learn from the experience of other couples. Sometimes, it's nice to know that there are other couples out there who are going through what you're going through too. We encourage engagement you never know what kind of couple friends you may make.


The Library of All Past Content

Yes, you read that right.

As a member of BMM, you get access to every LIVE Q&A, guest expert training, Marriage Booster and Course we've ever produced. This library is valued at thousands of dollars, and every piece of it could help you turn your marriage around today.

Even if your marriage is awesome we want it to stay that way. We beleive that connection is the key.

If ALL that happened by joining BMM was you enjoying a connected, fulfilling and intimate marriage...Would it be worth a try?

What if we take all the risk for you?  If you join BMM and show up 100%, and within the first 30 days your marriage hasn't changed in HUGE ways for the better, you get all of money back, no questions asked.


Questions? Check out our F.A.Q below or email us at: info@becausemarriagematters.com

  • Q: I am busy, will I have time to "keep up"?

    A: Yes, you can utilize any of the trainings and resources of BMM at your own pace and schedule. If you're committed to seeing your marriage grow and thrive, BMM will find a natural place at the top of your priority list! 😉

  • Q: What do you teach on?

    A: We focus a huge amount of time and energy talking about emotional intelligence, communication, transparency, appreciation and personal healing. We believe that 95% of marriage "issues" are born directly from the unhealed and unloved places inside each spouse. Healthy teammates make a healthy team! 

  • Q: Is this a "Christian" program?

    A: Rachel and I(Austin) are very devoted Christians, and the basis for our core values stem from the Christian faith. We believe those values, along with how God designed the human psyche, mind, heart and body reveal the core paths to finding deep personal healing and a co-commited, co-creative, and powerful marriage. 

  • Q: What if my spouse isn't interested in working on our marriage?

    A: That's okay. We've had a ton of individuals join and bring their spouses in down the road! It's a great way to show them you are willing to go first when it comes to investing in your marriage, and becoming responsible for what you bring to it. 

  • Q: Our marriage is already pretty good - will we gain anything?

    A: Even better. We don't believe you have to be sick to focus on the health of your marriage. It gets better as it gets better, always. 

  • Q: How do we do all the trainings?

    A: As soon as you join, you'll receive an email with a custom log-in to your very of BMM Dashboard. There, you can access all the trainings, and track your progress in each of them! It's a platform we built based on the feedback of tons of couples in our program.

Really, what are you waiting for? Let's do this.

Disclaimer:  Though having received training by licensed counselors and therapists, Austin and Rachel Holt are NOT licensed counselors or therapists. They do not guarantee any results from the use of the products and programs. You hereby release Austin and Rachel Holt, as well as Because Marriage Matters from any and all liability as it relates to the use of their products or programs.