Why We Play

When couples become more deeply connected, other issues and challenges start to magically dissolve and dissipate within the new found connection. And we want nothing more than to see you experience more “in-love” moments in your relationship.

WARNING: Side effects may include more fireworks in the bedroom.


Our Most Recent Reviews

As a counselor for over 40 years, I recommend these cards 100%.

Rated 5 out of 5
October 25, 2021

I am a licensed professional counselor in the state of Missouri and I have over 40 yrs experience in the counseling field. So, I have seen a lot of supposed “helps” for couple seeking healing and growth…ALOT!!!!! But the “Connection Cards” by Because Marriage Matters, can truly change your marriage!
The “Connection Cards” are user friendly. You will find you and your partner talking at a depth you have never experienced. It’s true! The “Connection Cards” can get you out of the “relational rut” and back onto a rich and satisfying relational trajectory.
If you are in couple’s counseling I recommend you get the “Connection Cards.” If you are not in couple’s counseling I recommend you get the cards. If you are feeling hopeless or hopeful about your love relationship GET THE CARDS! I promise that you will not regret it. Don’t wait any longer. Got get your “Connection Cards” now and begin experiencing a rich and satisfying relationship! You deserve to have an intimate and solid relationship!

Dr. Paul Carlisle

Reviving our relationship

Rated 5 out of 5
October 17, 2021

After 21 years of marriage, my husband and I felt as if we didn’t even know each other. We ordered these cards and are using using them whenever we can. We make time a couple of days a week. We are talking, listening, and laughing – connecting! This is giving us the bond we desperately needed.

Walter and Trish

32 years of happy marriage and still a benefit

Rated 5 out of 5
October 7, 2021

We have been married for 32 years. We are happy. We communicate well. We love to be around each other. Same goals. Etc. Bought these cards just for fun. Took them to dinner with us and we ended up sitting and talking for more than an hour about cool things. I loved it when I said something to my wife and she replied, “I had no idea that you felt that way” It was something about laundry and gratitude. I highly recommend this to all couples.

Chris Rasmussen

Amazing !!

Rated 5 out of 5
April 8, 2021

Thank you for these Cards! My husband and I went through a couple of them the other night and we both felt a deeper connection to each other after just a few cards. My husband, who doesn’t show emotion told me it was hard for him to express how he feels about difficult subjects on a normal basis but these cards really helped him to open up!! It was so good for him and for me to be able to connect with him In A different way. We have been married for 15 years and together 17 years. We are trying to encourage married couples in our church to get these cards as well!!


Great communication tool

Rated 5 out of 5
March 16, 2021

This is more than a conversation starter! These cards are really helping my husband and I to have deep conversations. This is especially helpful to have during the week days when we want to connect but are honestly pretty exhausted at the end of the day, with two small kids at home. I really really recommend these cards!


More About The Connection Cards

Hey there, Austin and Rachel here. We’re so thankful you’ve landed here on this page to learn more about the Connection Cards. We’ve been helping couples just like you create more connection, intimacy and joy in their marriage for years now. We do this through our online program, in-person events and now, through a fun, easy-to-play game called Connection Cards.

We believe that without connection, experiencing deep healing, intimacy, joy and other benefits of a committed relationship are impossible. When you’re connected, anything is possible.

We’ve had the privilege of learning from the best in the world when it comes to relationships, healing, personal growth and more. We would be remiss to not mention some of our most treasured influences:

The life and ministry of Jesus Christ

Dr. Paul Carlisle // Hope Counseling

Drs. Gay and Kathlyn Hendricks // The Hendricks Institute

Dr. Harville Hendrix // IMAGO Therapy

Dr. Dan Siegel // Interpersonal Neurobiology

WARNING: Side effects may include a connected and FUN relationship.


Disclaimer:  Though having received training by licensed counselors and therapists, Austin and Rachel Holt are NOT licensed counselors or therapists. They do not guarantee any results from the use of the products and programs. You hereby release Austin and Rachel Holt, as well as Because Marriage Matters from any and all liability as it relates to the use of their products or programs.

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