Why We Play

When couples become more deeply connected, other issues and challenges start to magically dissolve and dissipate within the new found connection. And we want nothing more than to see you experience more “in-love” moments in your relationship.

WARNING: Side effects may include more fireworks in the bedroom.


Our Most Recent Reviews

Great communication tool

Rated 5 out of 5
March 16, 2021

This is more than a conversation starter! These cards are really helping my husband and I to have deep conversations. This is especially helpful to have during the week days when we want to connect but are honestly pretty exhausted at the end of the day, with two small kids at home. I really really recommend these cards!


Want to talk to your spouse?

Rated 5 out of 5
August 31, 2020

The cards are one of the best tools I have ever seen to encourage: real, open, honest, and honoring conversation. They create a fair way to describe thoughts, feelings, and responses to your spouse in a way where both parties feel heard and understood. There was one topic I had been trying to figure out how I was going to bring up for weeks. After one card, I was able to calmly express my confusion and frustration. That led to a better understanding for both my wife and me in the topic. I HIGHLY recommend every couple use these consistently on or after date nights!

Zack Green

Lockdown and Communication

Rated 5 out of 5
March 25, 2020

Many of us are spending much more time with our spouses than we usually would (Thank you Covid-19)… so that means we are closer, right? Maybe in proximity, but true connection is not just about our physical location. These CONNECTION CARDS bridge the communication gap to bring us emotionally closer together. We are learning new things about each other and are able to have those deeper discussions that we crave but sometimes seem elusive. We are finding ourselves in totally different circumstances and facing new challenges than ever before but thanks to the Connection Cards we are able to better understand each other! ~Rick and April. (Married 19 years)

April Marino

An great way to connect, and reconnect.

Rated 5 out of 5
November 14, 2019

My husband and I love these cards! Not only do they make us feel more connected as we’re using them, but we can also use things we’ve learned from the cards in our everyday lives. <3

Alex & Levi Winter

Connection Win

Rated 5 out of 5
November 12, 2019

These cards are a great way to start conversations and dive deeper into uour marriage relationship. My wife and I have found that they are angreat way to really get to know each other. They arent just “questions and answer” cards, they really help and guide conversation into deeper waters. They are great for anyone who really wants to connect on a new level. It doesnt matter if you have been married for 30 years or 3 days, these are worth the investment!!

Sean Moore

More About The Connection Cards

Hey there, Austin and Rachel here. We’re so thankful you’ve landed here on this page to learn more about the Connection Cards. We’ve been helping couples just like you create more connection, intimacy and joy in their marriage for years now. We do this through our online program, in-person events and now, through a fun, easy-to-play game called Connection Cards.

We believe that without connection, experiencing deep healing, intimacy, joy and other benefits of a committed relationship are impossible. When you’re connected, anything is possible.

We’ve had the privilege of learning from the best in the world when it comes to relationships, healing, personal growth and more. We would be remiss to not mention some of our most treasured influences:

The life and ministry of Jesus Christ

Dr. Paul Carlisle // Hope Counseling

Drs. Gay and Kathlyn Hendricks // The Hendricks Institute

Dr. Harville Hendrix // IMAGO Therapy

Dr. Dan Siegel // Interpersonal Neurobiology

WARNING: Side effects may include a connected and FUN relationship.


Disclaimer:  Though having received training by licensed counselors and therapists, Austin and Rachel Holt are NOT licensed counselors or therapists. They do not guarantee any results from the use of the products and programs. You hereby release Austin and Rachel Holt, as well as Because Marriage Matters from any and all liability as it relates to the use of their products or programs.

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