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🔥Connection first, everything else second – It only works in that order.
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If you want to transform your marriage, transform your parenting, transform ALL your relationships . . . model something CRUCIAL that Jesus modeled for us(and that’s backed by the best neuroscientists and psychologists in the world)……
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Build connection first.
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When we’re connected, sustainable change can actually take place.
When we connect, we heal, and that’s what we really want…..to feel whole and loved, two gifts given to us by God and by relationships.
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When we heal, we end projection, judgement blame and criticism- there’s no need for them to protect us anymore.
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Connection leads to flow in relationship.
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I (Austin) have seen it in countless couples we’ve worked with, one on one clients of mine and most importantly, in my marriage, my parenthood and all my work.
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Connection first, everything else second.
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3 tips to Connect with those you love:
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End ALL withholding.
Make appreciating them an ART FORM.
Co-create joyful experiences and support each others unique gifts.
I promise you this will transform every aspect of your relationships and it’s not mutually exclusive to how you’re praying for God to show up in your relationships.
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How do you and your spouse connect?
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